Sleeping With Ex – You Must Not Sleep With Your Ex
Is sleeping with ex the right thing to do? These are probably questions that some men and women have in their mind. In this article, we will focus more on women since it is usually the women who are facing this problem rather than men.
So, what is my take on this question? Well, first, I don’t think I want to comment on whether sleeping with ex is right or wrong. This topic can be very subjective and the opinions can be influenced by factors like culture, religion, family background etc.
What is being discussed below is simply my personal opinion. Whether you agree with me or not is not that important. What is more important is that you made the best decision for yourself. Protect yourself from being hurt and do not allow your ex to use you.
With that said, let us look at 3 reasons why you should not be sleeping with ex.
3 Reasons for Not Sleeping with Ex
1)Doesn’t Get To The Root Of The Problem
Why does a break up occur? Well, in any relationship, there is probably at least one main reason or two that lead to the breakup. If you want to win back your ex boyfriend and have a wonderful relationship with him, it is important to deal with the root problem that causes your break up in the first place.
Unfortunately, sleeping with your ex will not solve the root problem for you. It may even make the situation worse because of the reasons discussed below.
2) Lose Respect of Your Ex Boyfriend
By agreeing to sleep with your ex boyfriend, he may start to lose respect for you. Although you want your ex to respect you, he just can’t do it if you agree to sleep with him so easily. He will lose respect for you because he may think that all you have to offer is your body and nothing else.
One of the problems with sleeping with your ex boyfriend is that there may be a risk of unwanted pregnancy. Regardless of the precaution in place, there is always a risk involved.
The risk only gets higher when a woman may sleep with her ex more than once, hoping that by doing so, her ex boyfriend will eventually return to the relationship. Unfortunately, this is usually not the case.
The main reason why you are considering about whether to sleep with your ex boyfriend or not is most likely because you want to win him back. But from what we see above, sleeping with ex is not going to help you win an ex boyfriend back. So, don’t do it.